Category: Personal

A Day in the Life: Madurai to Chennai Hustle


The adventure kicked off at 9:30 PM, when Santhanam and I set out from Madurai, bound for Chennai. With Santhanam in the driver’s seat, we headed first to Kappalur toll to pick up a team of painters. They were on board to get his new place in Maraimalai Nagar freshened up, so we were on a mission.

After a quick stop at Vadipatti for dinner (Santhanam dined; I skipped as usual), I crashed in the passenger seat, only waking up near Ulundurpet, where Santhanam handed over the wheel. I took the final stretch, dropping the painters off at Advaith’s Nest around 4:30 AM. Then we headed to my place for a much-needed two-hour nap.

By 7:30 AM, the day was already off to a whirlwind start with back-to-back customer calls. Things got stormy as we hit our first snag—the housekeeper wasn’t picking up to hand over the keys to Santhanam’s new apartment. The painters were ready to go, but I had urgent client work to handle first. By 9 AM, things finally settled as the keys arrived, my client was happy, and work was back on track.

Next, Santhanam and I headed to Akshaya Metropolis to check out the apartment. The painters needed more supplies, so we made a quick run to the shop, restocking materials and gathering a list of electrical and bathroom fittings from the electrician on-site. Then it was off to the registrar’s office, where we handed over the required documents to the document writer.

Lunch was a welcome break at Santhanam’s favorite, Mohan’s Bhojanalaya—four chapatis with two sabjis. With energy renewed, we went straight to the Nagaratchi office to apply for a name transfer, then hit up ICICI Bank for a cash deposit.

Back at Akshaya Metropolis, we left some final instructions for the painters, and by 4 PM, we headed home. A nap was tempting, but fate had other plans—client calls streamed in, and I needed updates from our CTO. Before I knew it, the nap window had closed, and Santhanam also couldn’t catch a break.

By 6:20 PM, we decided a walk in the park would be the perfect reset. We walked until 7:30 PM, hitting my 10,000-step goal. Feeling accomplished, we treated ourselves to a refreshing sugarcane juice. Santhanam grabbed dinner, but I skipped, again keeping it light.

Once home, a shower did wonders for my energy, and by then, my stomach felt much better. Wrapping up the day, here I am, jotting down the day’s hustle by 10:30 PM. From a nighttime drive to a day packed with calls, errands, and teamwork, it’s been a non-stop ride—one I’m glad to share.

A Day in Kanniyakumari: Post-Diwali Family Adventures


After a bustling Diwali evening filled with lights and firecrackers, we all woke up later than planned, still exhausted from the celebrations. The morning was a mad rush with the usual house chores and packing, and no time to whip up breakfast at home. Eventually, we managed to set off at 10 AM. Just as I started the car, I noticed the fuel gauge hovering low, and to add to the mix, Advaith was already cranky. Yamuna suggested we fuel up right away, but I insisted on getting breakfast first to avoid an impending meltdown from Advaith.

We stopped at Harish Hotel, where Advaith’s hunger had reached new heights. Feeding him was a challenge, but Yamuna handled it skillfully, somehow keeping him settled. The rest of us—Yamuna, Aradhya, and I—had a quick breakfast, and by the time we refueled, it was 11:30 AM. With full bellies and a full tank, we were ready for our drive to Kanniyakumari.

The kids were soon immersed in mobile games and eventually drifted off to sleep, giving Yamuna and me a rare stretch of uninterrupted conversation. The two-hour drive passed by smoothly, and before we knew it, we arrived at Hotel Rajeshwari around 1:50 PM. The property was inviting, with spacious, clean rooms and ample parking. Only two kilometers from the southernmost tip of India, the kids were excited and instantly made themselves at home with the TV and some playful chaos.

Though none of us were especially hungry after breakfast, we decided not to skip lunch. The hotel restaurant was convenient, but the food didn’t quite live up to expectations. I soon discovered we couldn’t charge meals to our room, which was a minor annoyance. Lesson learned: perhaps next time we’d look for outside dining options.

In the afternoon, we headed to Sunset Beach, a spot we had all enjoyed last year. Strangely, the kids weren’t as thrilled this time and quickly voted to return to the hotel’s swimming pool instead. So, we did. The pool turned out to be a highlight of the day; the kids, Yamuna, and I spent a lively three hours there, splashing around and relaxing together.

After a quick change, we decided to explore Beach Street and revisit the food court we enjoyed last year. Disappointment awaited us, though, as most shops were closed, and even the play area now charged fees. We settled for some ice cream and watched the kids play for a while before setting off to hunt for a good vegetarian restaurant.

Our quest for dinner was almost comical. We tried Shantha Bhavan, but after being told it would take 30 minutes with no guarantee of availability, we moved on. Pure veg options were scarce, and seafood spots dominated the area. Finally, we found Hotel Chitra tucked inside Vivekananda Ashram. It had an old-world charm and college-hostel vibe, and to our delight, the simple dishes—dosa, chapati, and fresh juices—were delicious.

Back at the hotel, the kids settled in for the night, already planning tomorrow. They were adamant about another pool day, but I’d promised a visit to Poovar. Yamuna hinted at returning home early to rest before Monday. Whether the kids or Yamuna win that debate will be tomorrow’s story, but for now, it’s lights out.

A Day on the Road: From Madurai to Trichy, Pudukottai, and Beyond


Yesterday turned into a surprising road trip adventure across South India. It all started with my friend asking if I could join him on an official trip to Trichy and Pudukottai, where he was accompanying another friend. Since I already had a task to pick up some belongings from my aunt in Trichy, I figured, why not? We set out from Madurai at 10:30 AM, driving through the scenic routes of Madurai-Dindigul-Trichy.

By 12:40 PM, we made our first pit stop at Agathiyar Tea Shop in Karumandapam. Nothing sets the tone for a trip like some good tea and snacks. I treated myself to a sandwich and their famous stuffed bun — delicious and perfectly spiced. Energized, we then headed to my uncle’s house in Tillai Nagar. I arrived to a pleasant surprise: my cousin was there with her kids, and it was a heartwarming reunion with my family. It felt great to catch up, even if only for a short while.

Around 1:30 PM, my friend decided to meet up with his childhood friend, who happened to be nearby at the Airtel office in Tillai Nagar. We joined him and then wandered over to Chellammal Mess for a proper South Indian lunch buffet. Between 1:45 PM and 2:30 PM, we dined on a hearty spread of organic vegetables, spinach, and wholesome traditional dishes. A satisfying meal to fuel us for the long drive ahead.

After lunch, we made a quick stop at Padma Coffee to pick up some freshly ground filter coffee powder. This little side trip made us laugh as my friend started reminding us of our “official” purpose — though, in truth, it was shaping up to be more of a memorable day of spontaneous stops and laughs.

Just as we were ready to head back to Madurai, our friend mentioned he needed to buy crackers for his kids, sparking an impromptu detour to Sivakasi, famous for its firecracker shops. From Alangudi, we mapped out a route that led us through Pudukottai, Manamadurai, and Narikudi, which also happens to be my friend’s ancestral village. By this time, night had fully settled in, casting the route in darkness. The roads felt mysterious, winding through unfamiliar, dimly lit stretches with barely any signs of life. It added a sense of quiet adventure to our trip, navigating by headlights alone. We paused for a quick tea break in Tirumayam around 6:15 PM, briefly savoring a warm cup before pressing on through the shadowy roads toward Sivakasi.

After the long drive, we stopped for a late dinner at Karuppiah Nadar Mess in Ettuvattam around 9:45 PM. Once we’d refueled, we arrived at the cracker shop in Sivakasi by 10:30 PM, where we stocked up on fireworks, making sure each of us left with something for Diwali.

Finally, we drove back to Madurai, reaching home around midnight. Our friend was dropped off by 12:15 AM, and we arrived home, exhausted but happy, by 12:45 AM.

In total, it was a 500+ kilometer journey through cities, highways, and countryside. My friend drove the initial leg, but I took over after the tea stop and handled the rest of the trip. It was a day filled with laughter, unexpected stops, and family reunions — truly an unforgettable adventure on the road.

Here is the Google Maps screenshot of the route we drove.

A Day in Madurai: Small Moments, Big Memories


Today was a relaxed, unexpected day. I woke up later than usual and missed the usual morning rush with the kids. Thankfully, my in-laws helped Yamuna get them off to school.

After breakfast, I had a haircut appointment at 10:30 AM. Yamuna gave me a few quick tasks to finish, and after a refreshing haircut and head massage, I was back home by 11:30.

Just as I arrived, I saw my friend and neighbor looking shaken up. His hands were swollen, and there was some blood on his face — he’d fallen off his scooter. I quickly drove him to the hospital in downtown Madurai, and after making sure he was in good hands, I headed back. On the way, I picked up a watermelon, thinking it might be fun for the kids later.

Back home by 1:30, I took a shower, then had lunch with Yamuna. She mentioned needing flowers, so my friend Santhanam and I went to the flower market. We returned with enough to last two weeks.

When the kids got home, Aradhya and Advaith wanted to make watermelon ice cream. We blended the watermelon, poured it into molds, and set it in the freezer. Then, Advaith and I took a nap until six.

Afterward, I went for a walk and completed my goal of 10,000 steps. In the evening, Santhanam and I went Diwali shopping at Ramraj, and he surprised me with three new shirts! We then picked up his brother-in-law from Madurai Railway Junction and returned home by 10 PM.

Reflecting on the day, it was filled with small joys and the warmth of family and friends. Sometimes, the best days are unplanned.

A Day Full of Family, Festivities, and Uninterrupted Sleep


I had a rare and truly satisfying sleep on the bus last night—one of those journeys where everything lined up perfectly. After writing yesterday’s blog, I boarded at Porur toll, dozed off, and miraculously woke up only when we reached Madurai. It was bliss. There’s something about the hum of a moving bus that felt like a lullaby this time, and it was honestly one of the best sleeps I’ve had on a bus in ages.

Reaching home felt just as comforting. I caught up with Advaith, who always has a way of energizing the day. Most of my day rolled by quietly, though, just resting. Except, of course, for a little afternoon sugarcane juice break—a simple pleasure that never fails to hit the spot.

By late afternoon, it was time to get ready for a special occasion: Aradhya’s birthday celebration. At around 4, Yamuna and I set out to pick up cake and snacks, with no idea it would turn into quite the event. But as soon as we returned, the magic happened. One by one, almost every kid in the community showed up, and before we knew it, Aradhya had her very own mini-party right at home. Watching her so happy, surrounded by friends, was a moment that really hit me. My little doll isn’t so little anymore—she’s growing up fast and building her own circle, which is beautiful to see.

Aradhya’s Birthday Cake

The day wrapped up with some fun for the kids: a little cracker-bursting session. It was noisy, joyful, and somehow the perfect ending to a family-filled day. It’s been a while since I felt this connected with everyone, and it was exactly what I needed.

From Meetings to Meaningful Moments: A Day of Connections and New Beginnings


Today was one of those days that just felt *right*. It started with a meeting at 10 AM with Prakash Anna, who was excited to introduce us to a group of budding young entrepreneurs in conversational AI. I picked up BT at the Ashok Nagar metro, and we headed to Dr.Smilez in Ashok Nagar, where our meeting took place. The energy in the room was fantastic; we clicked instantly with these entrepreneurs, sharing ideas and launching our latest product, Glance, specifically for Dr.Smilez. It felt like the start of something great.

Just as we wrapped up, Roshan called, needing his car back. So BT and I headed over to Urban Square for a quick chai discussion before dropping BT off in Asarkhana and delivering the car to Roshan. With that errand complete, I made my way to my cousin Bala’s place. En route, I ran into two of my uncles, and we ended up having a spontaneous, heartfelt conversation. The day was shaping up to be a mix of productivity and meaningful connections.

At Bala’s house, I enjoyed quality time with him and my periamma. However, I’d forgotten to pick up the CCS IT papers from Roshan’s car, so I asked him to drop them off at Saravana Stores, where I picked them up before walking home. I then booked a Swiggy Genie to get the documents over to Vani.

As evening set in, I connected with Balaji and BT over a few calls and took a walk in Porur Gardens. Later, I joined a Gmeet entrepreneurs meetup hosted by KBF. Finally, I packed up, walked to the Porur toll, and caught my bus to Madurai. Now here I am, jotting down this day’s adventures from the comfort of my bus seat, feeling deeply fulfilled.

A Day of Tasks, Adventures, and Surprises


The sun peeked through the curtains as I woke up early, energized to take on the day. It was one of those days where everything was lined up—calls, tasks, and a bit of adventure. I spent the morning catching up with people over calls—BT, Vilvam, Santhanam, Roshan, Balaji, and finally Aravind. Aravind was keen to join me on my rounds to Akshaya Metropolis and Advaith’s Nest, but as fate would have it, he showed up 45 minutes late. We finally left home at 12:45 PM, ready to tackle the long list of things to do.

First, we headed to Croma in Urapakkam. There, I purchased a fridge and a TV for one of my furnished apartments. By then, hunger had set in, so we took a detour to a juice shop, where I savored a sandwich and fresh juice.

Refueled, we moved to Paventher Road to pick up a kitchen rack, an exhaust fan, and a water heater. With the purchases loaded up, we visited Advaith’s Nest for a quick tour with Aravind, showing him the place I’ve been managing for some time.

Our next stop was Akshaya Metropolis, where I asked Raja to set up the rack, exhaust fan, and heater. However, things took an unexpected turn when the tenant incorrectly claimed that the old water heater wasn’t working—when, in fact, it was just fine. They also declined the exhaust fan, worried it might let mosquitoes in through the openings. Frustrated, I felt my time and money slipping through my fingers.

We then headed to the association office to set up the MyGate app. After getting it successfully installed and running, I was wowed by the features it offered—everything from visitor management to real-time updates made me feel more in control and secure.

As the day closed, we strolled through Mahindra City, taking in the evening calm. Despite returning home by 8:30 PM, I regretted not hitting my 10,000-step goal. But life, as always, had other plans.

A Clumsy Start, but a Fulfilling End: A Day of Hustle and Refreshing Moments


Today was one of those days that started with chaos but ended with fulfillment and satisfaction. My morning began at 9 AM as planned, getting ready to head to BT’s house. Just as I was about to leave, my mom wanted to visit the temple and asked me to lock the door, saying she would take the keys. Unfortunately, I mistakenly locked the latch, making it impossible to open the door without the spare key. The spare was with a family friend who had just left for their US visa biometrics appointment, leaving me no choice but to take my mom to my grandmother’s house at St. Thomas Mount for another key. It was a frustrating scooter ride, navigating through peak-hour traffic, taking 1.5 hours for the round trip.

Once that was sorted, I finally headed to BT’s house in Chitlapakkam, but my frustration only grew as I received repeated phone calls during the ride, unable to attend to them while wearing a helmet and driving. I arrived around noon and we quickly got to work, preparing the rent agreement and other documentation needed for opening a bank account. We then visited a nearby PAN service provider to register a PAN for the trust.

By 1:45 PM, we reached out to Balaji to check if he was free for a meeting. He agreed, and we decided to meet at Starbucks, Kathipara, by 2:30 PM. Balaji joined us at 3 PM. He wasn’t too pleased with my choice of Starbucks—rightfully so, as the coffee was more like milk than actual coffee. Even adding extra espresso couldn’t salvage it. Despite the disappointing coffee, I viewed it as a “lounge fee” for our business discussion in a comfortable space with air conditioning. We managed to have a productive meeting, so I couldn’t complain too much.

After dropping Balaji off at his in-laws’ house in Virugambakkam, I headed home and reached by 6:10 PM. Without missing a beat, I freshened up and went for my evening walk. By 6:25 PM, I was at Porur Gardens Park, walking until 7:40 PM, completing my goal of 10,000 steps and 40 heart points.

I wrapped up the day with a refreshing glass of sugarcane juice—a perfect end to a day that started with chaos but ended in fulfillment, fun, and a refreshing sense of accomplishment.

A Mixed Bag Day: Navigating Bureaucracy, Banks, and Personal Milestones


The day started with a sense of anticipation, as I knew it was going to be a busy one. I left home at 9:10 AM, navigating the early morning traffic to reach Kundrathur Register Office. It was just a 20-minute drive, and by 9:30 AM, I was there, ready to tackle the paperwork that awaited me. BT, my companion for the day, joined me five minutes later. We immediately got down to business, engaging with the document writer who prepared the necessary paperwork for us. After paying the government fee, we submitted the documents to the concerned officer.

The officer, a lady, took her time validating the deed. She pointed out a small addition that needed to be made. Thankfully, it was a quick fix—just five minutes, and we resubmitted the documents. Everything went smoothly after that; in a span of just 15 minutes, I completed my photo capture, biometric validation, and document scanning. I thought, “This might be the quickest and most efficient visit to a government office ever.”

But, of course, that was only half the battle. The document collection center was a different story altogether. The person in charge seemed to be in no hurry at all. The process dragged on, and I found myself waiting for two hours just to collect the documents. Patience was tested, but eventually, I walked out with the papers in hand, relieved to be moving on to the next task.

I left my scooter at the register office, and BT and I headed off to open a new bank account. Our first stop was Canara Bank. However, our optimism faded quickly as the person in charge demanded a document that didn’t exist. Undeterred, we decided to try our luck at Dhanlaxmi Bank in Mogappair. The manager there provided us with a checklist but informed us that we couldn’t proceed without a PAN card. We collected the checklist, knowing that this task would have to be postponed.

In the middle of all this, I received a call from the CCS office to sign the RoC documents. We headed there next, getting the necessary signatures out of the way. With that done, I placed an order for a FOR seal and a round seal for the trust with my rubber stamp vendor in Valasaravakkam and collected it soon after.

The final leg of the day involved retrieving my scooter from the Kundrathur Register Office and making my way back home, reaching by 8:30 PM. Dinner was a welcome relief, but my day wasn’t quite over. Determined to complete my fitness goals, I took a walk on the terrace, hitting my target of 10,000 steps and 40 heart points.

It was a long, mixed-bag day, filled with little victories and small frustrations. But by the end of it, I felt a sense of fulfillment. Despite the chaos, I had managed to tick off everything on my list, and that felt like a win.

A Day of Registrations, Nostalgia, and Reflections


Today was a day dedicated to getting the trust registered, accompanied by Vilvam and BT. The day started at 10 AM when I picked up Vilvam from his home. We had a long, nostalgic conversation during the drive, reminiscing about our school days and how life unfolded when he moved away. For many, Vilvam is known as my cousin and a school batchmate, and it was nice to reconnect.

We arrived at the Kundrathur Register Office by 10:30 AM and had a coffee before meeting the registrar. We reviewed the documents with him, and by then, BT had joined us. The process took an unexpected turn when we discovered that the lady typing our deed didn’t have the required stamp paper. After a brief search and a bit of frustration from BT, we managed to get the stamp paper from a nearby vendor. Unfortunately, the deed had typos, but luckily not on the stamp pages. We got the errors fixed and printed again.

Following this, the registrar directed us to a document writer. However, there were no available slots for the day, and we secured one for tomorrow instead. Driving back, Vilvam and I continued our nostalgic chat. I later dropped him at the TNHB office and headed home, feeling exhausted.

After a refreshing lunch of watermelon and papaya, I took a quick nap before heading for an evening walk at Porur Gardens Park. The day ended with some light business discussions with Balaji, leaving me feeling that despite my efforts, the work remained unfinished and stretched into tomorrow.