My bride hunt has always ended in a controversy and the latest one happened this sunday… This reason was enough for my Granny who is my well-wisher… But her emotional attachment on me is making me get frustrated… So, what was the whole issue about??
- A month back I went to see a Girl…
- Had to turn down the proposal owing to several reasons…
- The girl emailed me asking for a meet-up & to know the reason…
- As a gesture I agreed & last week I pinged her when I was in Bangalore…
- Then Girl’s mother called up my aunt & asked why am I meeting the girl after dropping the proposal…
This whole episode has made people think that I planned a Bangalore trip to meet this Girl… Then my grand mother came today to convince me to agree to this marriage… Then it was 3 -4 hours of convincing, debate, argument, emotional blackmail etc… This whole 3 – 4 hours has created a situation of making me guilty… Got really frustrated because;
- Mediocre thinking is being infused…
- Independent decision making is always questioned & I’m asked to report each and every action…
- Freedom of speech is tampered… I’m taught what to talk to the girl 😦
- Practical decisions are shown as “Making SIN”…
As a person who preaches liberation, free speech, fight for right… I got frustrated because of the mediocre thinking of my loved ones & more frustrating when they try to infuse it on me… But I feel more provoked because I love my granny & parents that much that they are putting me in a situation where I’m hurting there feeling…
Let me prey to get a quick remedy to this situation…
AnandNataraj 