It’s often said that love is a mystery, an unpredictable force that can bring us immense joy or immense pain. In some ways, it can feel like we are just actors in a play, with no control over the script or the characters that come and go.

This metaphor came to mind from a single line in a Tamil song.

நாயகன் மேலிரிந்து
நூலினை ஆட்டுகின்றான்
நாமெலாம் பொம்மை என்று
நாடகம் காட்டுகின்றான்

காவியம் போலொரு
காதலை தீட்டுவான்
காரணம் ஏதும் இன்றி
காட்சியை மாற்றுவான்

The hero from the top (GOD) leaps upon and makes us dance on the rope. We are all just puppets and he stages the play.

Like a poem he stages the love play, Without any reason he will change the scene.

The metaphor of God as a puppet master, controlling us with a thread and treating us like dolls in a love play, can be a powerful way of understanding this unpredictability. It suggests that there is a higher power at work, orchestrating our love lives with a poetic hand.

But the reality is that this higher power, whether we call it God or something else, is often unpredictable and unknowable. Like a puppet master who changes the scene without reason, it can feel like our love lives are at the mercy of forces beyond our control.

We may find ourselves falling in love with someone unexpected, or we may have our hearts broken by someone we thought we could trust. We may spend years searching for the one, only to have them slip through our fingers at the last moment.

And while we may pray to God or ask the universe for a happy ending to our love story, the truth is that we have no control over how the story unfolds. We can only play our parts to the best of our ability, and hope that the other actors in the play will do the same.

At the end of the day, we are all just artists in the play of love, doing our best to create something beautiful and meaningful. We may not be able to control the plot or the characters, but we can control how we respond to the twists and turns of the story.

So, if you find yourself struggling with the unpredictability of love, remember that you are not alone. We are all just puppets in the hands of a higher power, trying to make sense of the mysterious forces that guide us on our journey through life.