The Call After 40 Days


Yesterday, my mother-in-law called me. I saw the call, but I didn’t pick it up.

There was no urgency in me to respond. Maybe it was the silence of the past 40 days sitting quietly inside me. I let it pass.

Today, I called her back.

She answered like nothing had happened. The tone was casual. The conversation started normally, like how any regular day would sound. For a moment, it almost felt like those 40 days didn’t exist.

We spoke about a few general things. Simple, everyday topics. No tension in her voice. No hesitation either.

Then, somewhere in the middle of the conversation, she apologised.

She said sorry for what my father-in-law did.

There was no long explanation. No details. Just that one line.

I listened.

I kept my response simple and polite. I spoke for what she spoke. I didn’t extend the conversation beyond that. When it came to the apology, I said what I felt—I told her they can’t take me for granted, and it’s not something I can easily move past.

I didn’t raise my voice. I didn’t get emotional. I just said it as it is.

I also made one thing clear. I said I will respond when they speak, but I won’t initiate conversations or go the extra mile.

There was no argument after that. The conversation continued for a bit and then ended, just like any other call.

What stood out to me was not what was said, but what wasn’t.

There was still no call from my father-in-law.

I don’t know what they are thinking. I don’t know what changed after 40 days. I don’t know why the call came today.

But today, there was a call. There was a conversation. There was an apology.

And there were still questions.

Why do I Blog?


I’ve been blogging from 2002 but I’ve become a consistent blogger only for last one year. So that made me a avid blogger? 

  • I want to express my thoughts & experience to as much as possible.
  • Want to document my experience and I can refer back to my good and challenging times and cherish them.
  • After blogging my perception of looking at things got changed. I look for experience in every moment in life. When I come across traffic jams, corrupt bureaucrats I’m able to flush out my frustration by Blogging out.
  • When I feel lonely I can engage myself because of Blogging.
  • Blog is wonderful tool to market my company & thoughts.
  • When I post a blog about any problem / challenge I get lots of help / solutions from my kind readers.
  • After blogging I reduced on doing crap things that has saved lot of time & money for me.

There are more benefits I’m reaping because of blogging. I started blogging casually but I was taken by things I was able to gain and became a serious blogger.

Last four days in Madurai


Last four days in Madurai has been a different experience than my previous ones. Normally my stay is Madurai was full of discipline as I don’t have any friends here, city is small to cover any distance & there is not much places to hangout.

But this time I was totally out of my routine because; 

  • I skipped going to GYM.
  • I ate a lot as I found lots of eateries in Madurai which I was not exposed to previously.
  • Hanged out in new hangouts as Big Cinemas has opened two new multiplexes and there are two more expected in KK Nagar.
  • My friend base is slowly growing here.
  • Kudos to Hypersomnia I slept for more than 14 hours a day.

Over all I can’t cherish this moment officially as I think my productivity and work concentration has been severely affected. But personally I really enjoyed staying in Madurai and I started to develop a liking for the city.

So what did I do for last four days? 

  • Found a road side eatery which has vast menus for dosas. Its owner has become my good friend and I’m planning to do a coverage with him (The Hindu has already done a coverage on this eatery).
  • Then I close my dinner with Jil Jil Jigardhanda as dessert. But to be frank drinking Jigardhanda has become like my second dinner.
  • I finish the day by watching second show cinema from Big Cinemas.
  • Found a new coffee shop near Apollo Hospital by name Coffee Float which provides nice atmosphere to watch cricket matches and sip coffees.
  • My subordinates are doing a good job that they have made my work simple which eventually creates a lot for time for me.
  • Then my new mobile phone has a Cricket Game in it and I spent more time playing cricket.

Anyways last four days has given me a new experience and I enjoyed being here and stayed here without complaining for the first time.

So this has been my experience for the trip and I need to hang here as I must go back home to do some cleaning work, take shower and board bus to Kumbakonam to attend a relatives marriage. Kumbakonam must be 6-7 hours of travel from here and I think I need not worry as I’m addicted playing cricket in my mobile.

Oops forgot to charge my mobile let me do that and finish all my work.

Bye Bye Madurai.