Tag: rookie mindset

Time and Tide Wait for No Man — But They Flow With You


Flow in your rhythm — the tide will find its way to you.

They say time and tide wait for no man. With that belief, I started my rookie entrepreneur run. I had my ups and downs, and today I stand at a point of realization: you will have your time. Put in your efforts, balance your life, and things will happen in their own time.

As a rookie, in just 8 years, I created a business empire that brought the envy of many. I ran ahead of seasoned players who had been around for decades. It felt like I had cracked the code — until I hit the fall.

After that struggle, I started seeing new rookies beating me. People who were once behind me moved ahead. It felt hopeless at times, watching the race from the sidelines. But as I sat back and truly analyzed it, I saw the pattern:

The illusion of permanent success

We often think success is a peak — climb it once, and you’re there forever. But it’s not.

Success is like a series of waves. Today you’re ahead, tomorrow someone else. Then someday you rise again. It’s a continuous, flowing cycle.

Everyone has their reversals

Everyone who sprints ahead will eventually need to slow down. Every empire, every champion, every star performer — they all have their reversals. Some gracefully, some painfully, but all inevitably.

That doesn’t make them failures. It makes them part of life’s natural rhythm.

Effort, balance, and patience

The more I reflect, the more I realize that raw speed isn’t everything. Balance matters more. Effort matters more. Staying patient and showing up consistently matter more.

It’s no longer just about outrunning everyone else; it’s about lasting, evolving, and staying true to yourself.

Your own rhythm

Those rookies overtaking me today? They are in their own prime, their own sprint phase. Some will last, some will fade. Just like I did. Just like everyone does.

There is no permanent “ahead” or “behind.” There’s just your story, your learnings, and your rhythm.

Final thought: Time and tide wait for no man — but they flow with the one who flows with them

So I keep reminding myself: do your part, stay true, keep your balance, and your day will come. Again and again, in different forms.

The Rookie I Once Was… and the Veteran I’ve Become


Between the fearless rookie and the cautious veteran lies the bridge back to possibility.

There was a time when I was a rookie and those really were my golden days. Back then, every day felt fresh and exciting. I had no baggage, no fear of messing up, and no overthinking. I was just focused on learning, growing, and enjoying the journey.

Friends were always around. They weren’t just people I knew but they were my sounding boards, my stress-busters, my biggest supporters. We shared laughs, and setbacks never felt heavy because there was no past baggage to drag me down. That freedom was the biggest reason my performance was at its peak. I was curious, fearless, and fully present in the moment.

But today, things are different. Over the years, experience has piled up. At first, I thought this would make life easier but it has quietly built walls around me. Every new idea now gets filtered through doubts, old memories, and what-ifs. The excitement to try something new often gets buried under “what if it goes wrong?”

Responsibilities have grown, and the emotional load is heavier. The close circle of friends has thinned; everyone is busy fighting their own battles. And connecting with the younger generation feels almost impossible — our worlds and ways of thinking are too different.

Simple solutions that once worked well are now called outdated. Everything is more complex, more layered, and somehow less human. When I try to rely on my experience, I’m often brushed aside as being “old school,” which only makes me more hesitant.

This cycle has taken a toll on my discipline and consistency. Days turn into weeks, weeks into months, and months into years and the one thing that quietly grows is procrastination.

It was hard to become successful. Staying sharp and moving forward is even harder. The toughest part? Getting back up and moving again when your mind keeps reminding you of all the things that could go wrong. That invisible weight can hold you back longer than any real setback ever could.

I now feel stuck between who I was and who I’ve become. The rookie in me was fearless, always ready to explore. The experienced me hesitates, overthinks, and gets stuck in old patterns.

Somewhere inside, though, that rookie spirit still exists. I believe it’s waiting for me to let go of the baggage, to stop living in the shadow of the past, and to start moving forward again.

Maybe the real answer isn’t about choosing one side but about keeping the rookie’s hunger alive while using the wisdom I’ve gained.

Because at the end of the day, time will keep moving whether we do or not. But what we do with it — that’s still in our hands.