Sleep Deprived


Yesterday got too enthusiastic about my blog update and for this weeks sales and delivery planning… Got so obsessed that I couldn’t sleep for more than 2 hours!!

By far it was productive night where I made around 10+ blog post, planned sales & delivery strategy, did some personal finance management and finally ended everything with a 3.5KM walk in the morning..

Immediately took a shower and proceeded to office.. It is surprising that I was feeling fresh till 3PM… Just started feeling a bit drowsy and got a bit of caffeine to boost myself!!!

  

Hope I can finish this day with a high note as this is the beginning of the week!!! 

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What happened to my BLOGGING??


Once blogging use to be a habit without which I couldn’t close my day!! It was real hard practice, perceivarance and discipline which helped to make it a habit!!! Over all this habit helped me in;

  • Improving my communication skills!!
  • Improved my vocabulary!!!
  • Expressing my thoughts!!
  • Documenting my daily life!!
  • Experiencing Challenges!!
  • Getting New Friends!!
  • Becoming Open & Transparent!!
  • Venting out frustration!!

As days passed this habit slowly became an addiction!!! This addiction made;

  • Me stretch my day to finish my blog post!!
  • Me depressed if I fail to make a blog post!!
  • Me do unwanted things to make a blog post!!
  • Me too transparent and open person!!
  • Me loose my reputation sometimes!!

In spite of all those negatives it helped me feel free and expose my rightful image. I was able to move without carrying any burden on my shoulder!!! 

But I wanted to stop blogging for some time because I thought that I should not get addicted to anything or do anything because of addiction!! So, I voluntarily stopped blogging for some time!!

By the time I got convinced that I was de-addicted and ready to start my blogging I got married.. Then on I couldn’t be the same transparent and open person.. There were things which my wife couldn’t tolerate and accept.. I had to hide things to her in order to avoid hurting her.. I fell into the trap of mediocrity!! So, I couldn’t blog any longer :(

Frankly I do not want to show prejudice between my wife and parents.. I want to be the same transparent person the way I did with my parents..

Today while I was driving back alone from my wife’s native to Madurai I was thinking;

  • Why I stopped blogging for marriage?? 
  • Was I right or wrong in doing so??

Then I realised that the relationship and bond we carry with our parents are naturally stiched and we dare to take it for granted.. But with marriage we are building a bond which has to carefully crafted and stiched!!

I feel it was better sacrifice to hold my blog and my natural trait for the sake of building a relationship!! 

Not sure how far we have crossed as a couple and the depth in our bond??

Should I start Blogging or Wait for some more time??

Just want to try it out with small doses :)

Hope Yamuna reads this blog sometime or some day and makes a comment :)

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Tamil Litrature explaining important aspects of life!!


Got startled when I came across this tamil quote… The words used in the quote is almost non-existent in today’s modern tamil… But the message conveyed thousand years back is mind blowing!! Not sure where we lost our heritage!!! Not many Tamils know or realise that our own literature can help us in planning our career and personal life!! 

Tamils those days spoke about importance of wealth, education, poverty & insult… These facts of life can be applied any time until the mankind exist!!! 

திரு விற்றலுடைய தில்லை –யொருவற்குக் 
கற்றலின் வாய்த்த பிறவில்லை–எற்றுள்ளும் 
இன்மையின்னாத தில்லையில் லேன்னாத 
வன்மையின் வன்பாட்ட தில். 

Nothing is more powerful than wealth. 
Nothing is higher than the education. 
Nothing is more painful than poverty. 
Nothing is stronger than avoiding rejection to a begger.

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A festival celebrated after 3 years!!


I remember Ganesh Chadurthi 2012 was the last festival celebrated happily with dad.

Subsequent festivals couldn’t be celebrated happely because of my dads hospitalisation!!!

Then dad passed away last year back and as per HINDU customs we were not supposed to celebrate any festival for a year!!

It’s been a year since my dad left us and this Tamil New Year 2015 is a festival celebrated after 3 years!! 

 

Let this new year begin a new chapter in our life with blessings from Dad!!

And தமிழ் புத்தாண்டு வாழ்த்துக்கள்(Happy Tamil New Year) to everybody!!! 

From

K.Sivanesan & Family!!!

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Beautiful letter written by a father to his son!!


Following is a letter to his son from a renowned Hong Kong TV broadcaster cum Child Psychologist.

The words are actually applicable to all of us, young or old, children or parents.! 

This applies to daughters too. 

Dear son ,

I am writing this to you because of 3 reasons

  1. Life, fortune and mishaps are unpredictable, nobody knows how long he lives. Some words are better said early.
  2. I am your father, and if I don’t tell you these, no one else will.
  3. What is written is my own personal bitter experiences that perhaps could save you a lot of unnecessary heartaches. Remember the following as you go through life;
  • Do not bear grudge towards those who are not good to you. No one has the responsibility of treating you well, except your mother and I. To those who are good to you, you have to treasure it and be thankful, and ALSO you have to be cautious, because, everyone has a motive for every move. When a person is good to you, it does not mean he really likes you. You have to be careful, don’t hastily regard him as a real friend.
  • No one is indispensable, nothing is in the world that you must possess. Once you understand this idea, it would be easier for you to go through life when people around you don’t want you anymore, or when you lose what/who you love most.
  • Life is short. When you waste your life today, tomorrow you would find that life is leaving you. The earlier you treasure your life, the better you enjoy life.
  • Love is but a transient feeling, and this feeling would fade with time and with one’s mood. If your so called loved one leaves you, be patient, time will wash away your aches and sadness. Don’t over exaggerate the beauty and sweetness of love, and don’t over exaggerate the sadness of falling out of love.
  • A lot of successful people did not receive a good education, that does not mean that you can be successful by not studying hard! Whatever knowledge you gain is your weapon in life. One can go from rags to riches, but one has to start from some rags!
  • I do not expect you to financially support me when I am old, neither  would I financially support your whole life. My responsibility as a supporter ends when you are grown up. After that, you decide whether  you want to travel in a public transport or in your limousine, whether rich or poor.
  • You honour your words, but don’t expect others to be so. You can be good to people, but don’t expect people to be good to you. If you don’t understand this, you would end up with unnecessary troubles.
  • I have bought lotteries for umpteen years, but I could never strike any prize. That shows if you want to be rich, you have to work hard! There is no free lunch!
  • No matter how much time I have with you, let’s treasure the time we have together. We do not know if we would meet again in our next life.

Your Dad

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Want to try Anbu PAAL Nilayam Lassi


  I was telling a friend about how I’m trying and selecting unique brevarages for my for my Coffee Shop… He told me about Iced Lassi at ANBU PAAL NILAYAM near Thanjavur Old Bus Stand…

Just added it to the list of brevarages to be tried!! 

If you have just ran thru this blog post and you have any experienced or come across any special brevarage please share it with me as a COMMENT!!!

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The Real Vijayakanth Before Trolling!!


Off late the biggest trolled personality in whatsapp, facebook, Twitter and other social platforms from Tamil Nadu is Captain VijayKanth!! 

“The Real Vijayakanth” is an initiative by behindwoods to show us how he built his career and his helping nature!!

Let’s look at this video first… Pls excuse as the video is voiceovered in Tamil!!

A brief of what was conveyed in the video;

  • Made it big without any background or support in cinema industry!!
  • Known for giving opportunity to many actors & directors by introducing them through his films!!
  • Known for uplifting many uplifting many struggling actors, directors, producers and technicians!!
  • Helped actor Vijay & Surya to leverage his popularity by acting in supportive roles during the early stages of their career!!
  • First to introduce food for everyone at his shooting spots!!
  • Brought Nadigar Sangam (Actors Association) out of debts by organising International shows!!!
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