Tag: betrayal

Enemies Respect You; Traitors Measure You


Seeman Speech

Transcript in English

Today’s traitor was my friend yesterday. Tomorrow’s traitor is today’s friend.

An enemy is always at a distance. But a traitor is always near you.

An enemy will always respect your strengths. But a traitor will always calculate and exploit your weaknesses.

This doesn’t happen only to me — it will happen to you too. So, be cautious.

Kamarajar once said: ‘Show love to every living being, but be very careful with humans.’

We know what a snake will do. We know what a monkey will do. We know what a tiger will do.

But you can never predict what this human beast will do.

Core message

The speech warns us that true danger doesn’t always come from obvious enemies but it often comes from people close to us, the ones who appear as friends but act as traitors.

The speaker emphasizes caution in human relationships:

  • Enemies are straightforward and respect your power.
  • Traitors stay close, study your weaknesses, and use them against you.
  • We understand animals, but humans are unpredictable and can be more dangerous than any wild creature.

It’s a call to be vigilant, not naive, and to love broadly but trust selectively.

Sixteen Years Underground


I walked through the darkness alone, not to escape the past, but to reclaim my future.

In the early 2000s, I built a life from scratch, brick by brick, hour by hour.
While others partied and dreamed, I worked.
20-hour days. No shortcuts. No favours.
By 2004, the tide had turned in my favour.

I had a growing business.
I had a beautiful woman by my side.
I had the pride of building something real, something enviable.

From the outside, life looked perfect.
Inside, I felt invincible.

Then came the collapse.

In 2008, the two people I trusted most, my partner and my lover — destroyed me.
Their affair wasn’t just a personal betrayal; it was surgical.
They pushed me out of the very company I had built.
Overnight, I lost my wealth, my name, my identity, my peace.

I was cast out! while they wore my success like a crown.

What followed wasn’t drama. It was silence.
The kind of silence where you scream, but no one hears.
Friends disappeared. Society judged.
I was labelled the loser. The discarded one.
They said he was the brain. That I was a fluke.

But I endured.
Every single day.
With nothing but grit, and a memory of what I once was.

I watched them from a distance.
Their lives looked glittering with new homes, vacations, laughter.
But time has its own justice.

A decade later, the cracks appeared.

The marriage fell apart.
The money dried up.
He spiraled into addiction.
She into loneliness.

While they scattered, I stayed still.
I had nothing left to lose and everything to rebuild.

Now, nineteen years later, I am stepping out.

Not just into light.
Into freedom.
Into peace.

I am no longer the man who lost everything.
I am the man who survived everything.

Some journeys don’t need a crowd. Just courage, time, and a quiet fire inside.

Against all ODDS – My triumph in all its GLORY!!!


  

The year 2008 was the most testing phase of my life… Was totally shattered by betrayal, loss of possession, loss of relationship and a bunch of legal disputes against me!!! Let me eloborate on all the odds;

Betrayal: 

  • From someone whom I assumed to be my best buddy till that day!!
  • From someone whom I thought would be my better half!!

Loss of Possession: Lost a company which I launched for which pledging my life & career for!!!

Loss of Relationship: That is the time which showed me the true face of more people who left once I lost money and identity!!

Legal Issues: I had to face a bunch of legal challenges for the next two years people who betrayed me!!

Criticism: Was criticised for getting cheated & for being a loser… Those were defiantly not a sort of criticism which I could take at that point of time!!

Judgemental: People became judgemental about every action of mine..

I was at odds and future looked blank. I was not in a mindset to fight back as I was emotionally,morally & monetaril broke!! Wanted to take a break, wanted to freak, wanted to roam free!! But society & parental pressure didn’t allow me to do that!!

Finally I started again!!! I knew each move would be watched, judged & criticised!! So, I decided to move to a place where I had no friends or relatives!! That happened to be a blessing in disguise!! I started and worked for 6-8 hours a day and I;

  • Joined a fitness studio and worked out everyday!!
  • Did Vagabond Like travel every weekend!!
  • Read a lot of books!!
  • Networked and got new friends & acquintances in this new place!!!
  • Watched a lot of movies!!
  • Boozed like a fish!!
  • Took up to marijuana!!!
  • Cried when needed!!
  • Started Blogging & Tweeting all crazy experiences!!
  • Did what all I wanted to do, even if it was bad!!

The change of place, new friends, doing what I wanted and documenting my my experience as blog gave me the needed distraction and purpose to be engaged!!

Slowly my intensity in handling hurdles became aggressive… Was able to handle challenges, quash the hurdles and finally started seeing success against the challenges… Today I’m happy and obliged to almighty for putting me into such a challenge!!

 Against All Odds I could finally triumph by being me and being decisive!!!