As a coward, expressing love can be an extremely difficult task. Love requires vulnerability and courage, both of which can be very intimidating for someone who is naturally inclined towards fear and avoidance. It’s not that cowards are incapable of feeling love; it’s just that they struggle to express it in the way that they want to.
For me, expressing love has always been a daunting prospect. I have always been afraid of rejection and the potential for hurt that comes with putting oneself out there. As a result, I have often found myself holding back my feelings, afraid of what might happen if I were to reveal them. This has caused me a great deal of pain over the years, as I have watched opportunities for love slip away because I was too afraid to take the risk.
It’s not that I don’t feel love deeply. I do, and it’s a wonderful feeling. The problem is that my fear of rejection and my tendency to avoid confrontation make it difficult for me to express that love in a way that feels authentic and meaningful. Instead, I find myself resorting to small gestures and platitudes, hoping that they will be enough to convey what I am feeling.
Tag: love
Unquenchable Desires: Navigating the Joy and Pain of Love
Love is a powerful emotion that can make us feel both joy and pain. It can be difficult to express our feelings to someone, especially if we fear rejection. When unquenchable desires keep appearing, they can pierce our hearts and leave us feeling scared and vulnerable.
For me, expressing my love is like walking on a tightrope. It takes courage and a leap of faith to tell someone how I feel, but the fear of rejection can be paralyzing. I stir her name every day in my soul, but the trial she walks is like a shadow that I can never catch.
The hesitation in expressing my love is like a heavy weight on my chest. It’s as if I’m constantly holding my breath, waiting for the right moment to exhale. But the longer I wait, the harder it becomes. The dumbness and infatuation are like two halves that keep killing me every day.
Alaipayuthey – A Tale of Love, Marriage, and Relationships
Alaipayuthey is a Tamil-language romantic drama film directed by Mani Ratnam, which was released in 2000. The movie tells the story of a young couple, Karthik and Shakthi, who fall in love and get married against their parent’s wishes. As they try to navigate the challenges of married life, they are forced to confront the realities of adulthood and the complexities of human relationships.
The movie begins with Karthik, played by Madhavan, meeting Shakthi, played by Shalini, on a train ride in Chennai. Their initial interactions are awkward and hesitant, but they are drawn to each other’s company. As they part ways, they exchange phone numbers and begin talking to each other regularly. Soon, they realize they are in love and decide to get married.
However, their parents are against it as they come from different social backgrounds. Despite their parents’ objections, Karthik and Shakthi elope and get married. They begin their life together, but their happiness is short-lived as they soon realize that marriage is not just about love, but also about understanding and compromise.
The movie beautifully depicts the struggles of a young couple trying to make their marriage work. From adjusting to each other’s families to managing their careers and finances, Karthik and Shakthi face a variety of challenges that put their relationship to the test.
As the story progresses, we see the couple’s relationship mature and evolve. They learn to communicate better, understand each other’s needs, and work through their issues. However, their relationship is tested once again when Shakthi is involved in a serious accident that leaves her in a coma. Karthik is forced to confront the possibility of losing his wife and the regret of not having fully appreciated her while she was still with him.
Alaipayuthey is a touching and emotional story that highlights the beauty and complexity of love and relationships. The film’s music, composed by A.R. Rahman, is an absolute treat and perfectly captures the emotions of the characters. The chemistry between Madhavan and Shalini is also noteworthy, and their performances are heartfelt.
Overall, Alaipayuthey is a must-watch for anyone who believes in the power of love and the importance of communication and understanding in relationships. It is a timeless classic that will continue to be cherished by audiences for generations to come.
When Love Leaves You Bankrupt
Heartbreak and financial struggles can be two of the most difficult challenges to face in life. Whether they occur together or separately, they can leave us feeling helpless and alone.
The pain of a broken heart can be overwhelming. It can feel like a physical ache in our chest that never goes away. We may find ourselves questioning everything we did or said, wondering what we could have done differently to avoid heartbreak.
At the same time, financial struggles can add to the stress and anxiety of a broken heart. The pressure of not having enough money can be intense.
However, it’s important to remember that these challenges are not permanent. While it may not seem like it at the moment, things will get better.
Above all, remember that we are not alone. Many people have experienced heartbreak and financial struggles, and there is no shame in asking for help or support. With time, patience, and perseverance, we can overcome these challenges and come out stronger on the other side.
Understanding the Metaphor of God as a Puppet Master
It’s often said that love is a mystery, an unpredictable force that can bring us immense joy or immense pain. In some ways, it can feel like we are just actors in a play, with no control over the script or the characters that come and go.
This metaphor came to mind from a single line in a Tamil song.
நாயகன் மேலிரிந்து
நூலினை ஆட்டுகின்றான்
நாமெலாம் பொம்மை என்று
நாடகம் காட்டுகின்றான்காவியம் போலொரு
காதலை தீட்டுவான்
காரணம் ஏதும் இன்றி
காட்சியை மாற்றுவான்The hero from the top (GOD) leaps upon and makes us dance on the rope. We are all just puppets and he stages the play.
Like a poem he stages the love play, Without any reason he will change the scene.
The metaphor of God as a puppet master, controlling us with a thread and treating us like dolls in a love play, can be a powerful way of understanding this unpredictability. It suggests that there is a higher power at work, orchestrating our love lives with a poetic hand.
But the reality is that this higher power, whether we call it God or something else, is often unpredictable and unknowable. Like a puppet master who changes the scene without reason, it can feel like our love lives are at the mercy of forces beyond our control.
We may find ourselves falling in love with someone unexpected, or we may have our hearts broken by someone we thought we could trust. We may spend years searching for the one, only to have them slip through our fingers at the last moment.
And while we may pray to God or ask the universe for a happy ending to our love story, the truth is that we have no control over how the story unfolds. We can only play our parts to the best of our ability, and hope that the other actors in the play will do the same.
At the end of the day, we are all just artists in the play of love, doing our best to create something beautiful and meaningful. We may not be able to control the plot or the characters, but we can control how we respond to the twists and turns of the story.
So, if you find yourself struggling with the unpredictability of love, remember that you are not alone. We are all just puppets in the hands of a higher power, trying to make sense of the mysterious forces that guide us on our journey through life.
My Secrets
As a person I cannot keep Secrets and cannot be Secretive!!!
But I’ve my own share untold secrets, though they are very minimal!!!
As always most of the secrets were the crush I had on girls… Mostly I kept those crush as secrets without opening/expressing with those girls!!
Not sure how life would have turned up if I had opened up with those girls… But there is no point in talking about them now…
Also I don’t want to open up about those secret crush girls, because they are all married and settled with kids…
But when I look back I envy those days… I kept following those girls and I admired them without their knowledge..
Admiring a girl without her knowledge and keeping the feeling within is an unexplainable experience…
But I don’t have any regrets today because I’m not sure if I’d have become an entrepreneur if I had fallen for love…
How Anand Proposed to Yamuna!!!
Anand: Yamuna I Love You!!!
Yamuna: ஊருக்கே கெக்குர மாதிரி மைக் பொட்’tu சொல்லு… அப்போ பதில் சொல்லுரன்… (Put a mike & tell the world… Then I’ll tell…)
Anand: Hellooo!!! Hellloooooo!!! Mike Testing… 1….. 2……… 3…………
Anand: நா உன்கிட்ட மட்’tum சொல்லனும் நு நினசேன், நீ தான் மைக்கு போட்’tu சொல்லு சொன்ன… so here i am… I….Lovv…. (I wanted to tell you in person, but you wanted tell it in a mike… so here i am… I…. Lovv…..)
Yamuna: Yamuna shuts Anand’s Mouth….
Yamuna be MINE!!!
I feel it in my fingers, I feel it in my toes.
Well love is all around me, and so the feeling grows.
It´s written on the wind, it´s everywhere I go.
So if you really love me, come on and let it show.
You know I love you, I always will.
My mind’s made up by the way that I feel,
there´s no beginning, there´ll be no end
cause on my love you can depend.
I see your face before me as I lay on my bed
I kinda get to thinking, of all the things you said.
You gave your promise to me, and I gave mine to you.
So if you really love me!!!
So if you really love me!!
come on and let it show
come on and let it show
come on and let it show
How to live a happy married life
Marriage is the most needed thing of our social life and every person wants to live a successful married life so that he can live happily with peace. Chanakaya has given many secrets for a successful marriage in Chanakaya Niti.
While every man wants to marry a beautiful girl but Chanakya has told otherwise. He says that if a girl is beautiful but does not belong to a good family then do not marry with her. He said we should marry with a girl of a good family even if she is not beautiful. He said the marriage should done in a family which is equal to our family.
Chanakaya said the love between husband and wife is the most successful reason behind marriage.
He said the real happiness of a wife lies in the serving of her husband and it is the Swarag of the wife.
He said a successful wife is that who is honest and clever. A wife should love his husband and speak the truth. This kind of behavior of a wife brings happiness to the family.
He says that the wise people should not quarrel over the talks of women as it brings sorrows in the family.
A woman should understand any work done by her with the consent of her husband is beneficial to her and family.
A husband should always protect his wife with his money etc.
A daughter should be married in a good family.
A wife should not quarrel with her husband without any reason.
The couples can live happily by keeping in mind the secrets told by the Great Chanakaya.
Love at different ages!!!
A 5 year old Girl -“Love is when he takes my chocolates and comes back with its wrapper
A 10 year old Girl -“Love is when we work for a project and he intentionally touch my hand trying to get a pen !”
A 15 year old Girl -” Love is when we get caught bunking and he takes the blame ”
An 18 year old Girl -” Love is when at farewell he hugs me saying ‘ keep in touch’ !”
A 21 year old Girl -” Love is when he runs from college with me just for a week long trip together !!”
A 26 year old -“Love is when he proposes me with a rose and makes a fool of himself, and says ‘U know i love You’ ”
A 35 year old woman -“love is when he cleans the house seeing me tired”
A 50 year old woman -” love is when he is ill and still cracks a joke just me laugh !
A 60 year old woman -‘love is when he is taking his last breath and saying, ‘ I am glad as you know what love is,,’and leaves me with a tear forever”
LOVE IS A SUPREME FEELING … ♥
AnandNataraj 