Tag: Motivation

Time and Tide Wait for No Man — But They Flow With You


Flow in your rhythm — the tide will find its way to you.

They say time and tide wait for no man. With that belief, I started my rookie entrepreneur run. I had my ups and downs, and today I stand at a point of realization: you will have your time. Put in your efforts, balance your life, and things will happen in their own time.

As a rookie, in just 8 years, I created a business empire that brought the envy of many. I ran ahead of seasoned players who had been around for decades. It felt like I had cracked the code — until I hit the fall.

After that struggle, I started seeing new rookies beating me. People who were once behind me moved ahead. It felt hopeless at times, watching the race from the sidelines. But as I sat back and truly analyzed it, I saw the pattern:

The illusion of permanent success

We often think success is a peak — climb it once, and you’re there forever. But it’s not.

Success is like a series of waves. Today you’re ahead, tomorrow someone else. Then someday you rise again. It’s a continuous, flowing cycle.

Everyone has their reversals

Everyone who sprints ahead will eventually need to slow down. Every empire, every champion, every star performer — they all have their reversals. Some gracefully, some painfully, but all inevitably.

That doesn’t make them failures. It makes them part of life’s natural rhythm.

Effort, balance, and patience

The more I reflect, the more I realize that raw speed isn’t everything. Balance matters more. Effort matters more. Staying patient and showing up consistently matter more.

It’s no longer just about outrunning everyone else; it’s about lasting, evolving, and staying true to yourself.

Your own rhythm

Those rookies overtaking me today? They are in their own prime, their own sprint phase. Some will last, some will fade. Just like I did. Just like everyone does.

There is no permanent “ahead” or “behind.” There’s just your story, your learnings, and your rhythm.

Final thought: Time and tide wait for no man — but they flow with the one who flows with them

So I keep reminding myself: do your part, stay true, keep your balance, and your day will come. Again and again, in different forms.

People Often Judge Outcomes, Not Journeys


Judged by outcomes. Built by journey.

I’ve seen this time and again — in business, in relationships, and especially in entrepreneurship:

People judge outcomes. Not journeys.

Success? You’re celebrated.
Failure? You’re forgotten.
Still trying? You’re questioned.

Why is it this way?

Because outcomes are visible, journeys are not.

Nobody sees the 3 a.m. self-doubt. The loan EMIs. The silent sacrifices.
They only see whether you “made it” — or didn’t.

Society has become obsessed with results.
We’ve built a culture where IPOs trend, but unpaid dues don’t.
Where LinkedIn posts shine, but emotional breakdowns stay hidden.

The cost of this mindset for entrepreneurs?

1.) Emotional burnout

You start believing you’re only as good as your last “win.”
The effort, grit, and growth mean nothing if the scoreboard shows zero.

2.) Judgment from close ones

The toughest hits often come not from strangers, but from family and friends:

“Still chasing your dream?”
“When will you settle down?”
“Why not take up something stable?”

Their concern is real, but their understanding is rare.

3.) Fear of failure

You start making safe bets. You drop ideas too soon.
You avoid risks just to avoid ridicule.

4.) Validation over vision

You chase vanity metrics. You post curated wins.
You start performing entrepreneurship instead of living it.

But here’s the truth no one talks about:

  • The journey builds you, whether or not the startup succeeds.
  • Failure isn’t the opposite of success — it’s a phase of it.
  • Your worth isn’t tied to revenue charts. It’s tied to resilience.

Let’s change the narrative:

Instead of asking:

“What’s your valuation?”
Let’s ask:
“What have you learned?”
“What’s keeping you going?”
“How can I help?”

Because some journeys deserve standing ovations — even without a trophy.

The Rookie I Once Was… and the Veteran I’ve Become


Between the fearless rookie and the cautious veteran lies the bridge back to possibility.

There was a time when I was a rookie and those really were my golden days. Back then, every day felt fresh and exciting. I had no baggage, no fear of messing up, and no overthinking. I was just focused on learning, growing, and enjoying the journey.

Friends were always around. They weren’t just people I knew but they were my sounding boards, my stress-busters, my biggest supporters. We shared laughs, and setbacks never felt heavy because there was no past baggage to drag me down. That freedom was the biggest reason my performance was at its peak. I was curious, fearless, and fully present in the moment.

But today, things are different. Over the years, experience has piled up. At first, I thought this would make life easier but it has quietly built walls around me. Every new idea now gets filtered through doubts, old memories, and what-ifs. The excitement to try something new often gets buried under “what if it goes wrong?”

Responsibilities have grown, and the emotional load is heavier. The close circle of friends has thinned; everyone is busy fighting their own battles. And connecting with the younger generation feels almost impossible — our worlds and ways of thinking are too different.

Simple solutions that once worked well are now called outdated. Everything is more complex, more layered, and somehow less human. When I try to rely on my experience, I’m often brushed aside as being “old school,” which only makes me more hesitant.

This cycle has taken a toll on my discipline and consistency. Days turn into weeks, weeks into months, and months into years and the one thing that quietly grows is procrastination.

It was hard to become successful. Staying sharp and moving forward is even harder. The toughest part? Getting back up and moving again when your mind keeps reminding you of all the things that could go wrong. That invisible weight can hold you back longer than any real setback ever could.

I now feel stuck between who I was and who I’ve become. The rookie in me was fearless, always ready to explore. The experienced me hesitates, overthinks, and gets stuck in old patterns.

Somewhere inside, though, that rookie spirit still exists. I believe it’s waiting for me to let go of the baggage, to stop living in the shadow of the past, and to start moving forward again.

Maybe the real answer isn’t about choosing one side but about keeping the rookie’s hunger alive while using the wisdom I’ve gained.

Because at the end of the day, time will keep moving whether we do or not. But what we do with it — that’s still in our hands.

The Garage Dream by the Sea: Two Years That Built a Legacy


Between September 2002 and September 2004, we built something unforgettable. Our office wasn’t in a fancy building or a posh tech park. It was tucked inside a TNHB quarters apartment in Valmiki Nagar, Kottivakkam. But for us, it felt like Silicon Valley.

Renting that space with self-earned money brought a satisfaction that can’t be fully put into words—it was something only a hustler’s heart could feel.

We began as a humble team of 8, packed with energy, grit, and ideas. Within two years, we had grown into a 40-member unit that breathed ambition. We set up everything ourselves—our very own Samba server, our desks, our dreams. Vel Sir stood by us, offering assembled computers on credit when funds were tight. We didn’t have an air conditioner when we started; the heat from the Chennai sun and CRT monitors turned the place into a furnace. But we endured.

We hustled in sweat, but not in despair.

Slowly, we upgraded—one A/C at a time. We set up a tiny kitchen for tea and coffee. We insisted that everyone must volunteer to prepare coffee or tea in that kitchen. Many resisted in the beginning. But soon, everyone took their turn—each cup brewed with pride, with patience. That pantry transformed into our bonding zone, our ritual, our daily pause between lines of code.

Every milestone—big or small—was celebrated with team lunches. From every corner restaurant in Besant Nagar to the iconic joints in Adyar, we made those places our own.

I practically lived in that office. My routine? Wake up at 5 AM, dash home to shower, and be back by 7:30. The location was a dream in itself—sea-facing, serene, and soul-fueling. The Sindoor Sea Club next door lit up weekends, Diwalis, and New Year’s Eves. I walked the beach to stay fit. I walked it again at midnight to clear my mind.

There were nights I rode solo on my Calibre bike from Valmiki Nagar to Mahabalipuram. Back then, ECR after 8 PM was a ghost road—no streetlights, no traffic, no cops, not even open tea stalls. But I needed that silence. That solitude was therapy.

Night shows at Prarthana or Mayajaal were my release. The rest of the time, we were a silent storm—working with focus, building in stealth. No one believed in us yet, but we did. We learned to smile through the struggle, to lead without applause, to hustle without hashtags.

There were times when the weight of challenges felt unbearable. But that location, that ocean breeze, those midnight drives—they helped me breathe, helped me bounce back.

Those two years weren’t just about building a company. They were about building character.

Get busy living or get busy dying


This quote is from the movie “The Shawshank Redemption.” The full quote is “Get busy living or get busy dying.”

It means that we have a choice in life – we can either actively engage with the world and live our lives to the fullest, or we can give up and let life pass us by. We can either take risks, pursue our dreams, and find joy in the present moment, or we can resign ourselves to a life of boredom and despair.

This quote encourages us to take action and make the most of the time we have. It reminds us that life is short, and we should not waste it on things that do not matter. Instead, we should focus on what is truly important to us and take steps to achieve our goals and live our best lives.

Entrepreneurial rollercoaster: Navigating relationships, emotions, failures, and demotivation on the path to success


Entrepreneurship can be a challenging and rewarding journey. While building a business, entrepreneurs face numerous challenges that can affect their relationships, emotions, and motivation. In this blog, we will explore some of the common challenges faced by entrepreneurs and how they can overcome them.

  1. Relationships:

Entrepreneurship can put a strain on relationships, whether it’s with a spouse, family, or friends. Entrepreneurs often work long hours and put all their energy into their business, leaving little time for other areas of their life. This can lead to feelings of guilt and resentment from their loved ones.

To overcome this, entrepreneurs should communicate their goals and schedule with their loved ones. Setting boundaries and being transparent about their workload can help to manage expectations and reduce stress. Additionally, making time for self-care and spending quality time with loved ones can help to maintain healthy relationships.

  1. Emotions:

Entrepreneurship can be an emotional rollercoaster. The highs of success and the lows of failure can be challenging to manage. Entrepreneurs may also face anxiety and stress due to the uncertainty of their business.

To overcome this, entrepreneurs should practice mindfulness and self-care. Taking breaks, practicing meditation, and exercising can help to reduce stress and anxiety. Seeking support from a mentor or a therapist can also help to manage emotions and maintain a positive mindset.

  1. Failures:

Failures are inevitable in entrepreneurship. Entrepreneurs may experience setbacks, such as failed product launches, unsuccessful marketing campaigns, or financial challenges. These failures can be demotivating and make entrepreneurs question their abilities.

To overcome this, entrepreneurs should embrace failure as a learning opportunity. They should analyze their failures and use the lessons learned to improve their business. Additionally, seeking support from a mentor or a business coach can provide a fresh perspective and help entrepreneurs to stay motivated.

  1. Demotivation:

Entrepreneurship can be a lonely journey, and entrepreneurs may feel demotivated at times. It can be challenging to stay motivated when facing constant challenges and setbacks.

To overcome this, entrepreneurs should set realistic goals and celebrate small wins. Breaking down big goals into smaller achievable tasks can make them feel less overwhelming. Additionally, seeking support from a community of like-minded entrepreneurs can provide motivation and accountability.

In conclusion, entrepreneurship is a challenging but rewarding journey. Entrepreneurs may face challenges in their relationships, emotions, failures, and motivation. However, by practicing mindfulness, seeking support, and embracing failure, entrepreneurs can overcome these challenges and achieve success in their business

The Entrepreneurial Spirit: Once Ignited, Forever Alive


Entrepreneurship is a way of life, not just a profession. It is a mindset that enables individuals to identify and pursue opportunities, create value, and take calculated risks. While some people may choose to start their own businesses only once, for others, entrepreneurship becomes a lifelong pursuit. The phrase “Once an entrepreneur always an entrepreneur” reflects this reality, and in this blog post, we will explore why this is the case.

  1. Entrepreneurship is a mindset

Entrepreneurship is not just about starting a business; it’s about the mindset that drives individuals to pursue their goals and create value. Entrepreneurs are inherently curious and creative. They are always on the lookout for new opportunities and ways to improve existing systems. This mindset doesn’t just disappear once an entrepreneur has sold their business or retired from the startup world.

  1. Entrepreneurs thrive on challenge

Entrepreneurs are often attracted to the challenge of starting a business. They relish the opportunity to create something new and solve problems that others have overlooked. This drive doesn’t disappear once a business is up and running. Many entrepreneurs continue to seek out new challenges, whether that means starting a new business or pursuing other endeavors that require creativity and problem-solving skills.

  1. Entrepreneurs are passionate

Entrepreneurs are often driven by a deep passion for what they do. Whether they are creating a new product or service, solving a problem, or serving a specific market, entrepreneurs are committed to their vision. This passion doesn’t simply disappear once a business is sold or retired from. Many entrepreneurs continue to be passionate about the same issues that drove them to start their business in the first place, and they may pursue other avenues for expressing that passion.

  1. Entrepreneurs are resilient

Starting a business is not easy, and entrepreneurs often face setbacks, failures, and unexpected challenges along the way. However, successful entrepreneurs learn from their experiences and use them to build resilience. This resilience doesn’t disappear once a business is sold or retired from. Many entrepreneurs continue to be resilient in other areas of their lives and pursue new challenges with the same level of determination.

  1. Entrepreneurship is a community

Entrepreneurship is not just about the individual; it’s about the community of like-minded individuals who support each other and share a common vision. Once an entrepreneur has entered this community, they are unlikely to leave it entirely. Many entrepreneurs continue to be involved in the startup world, even if they are no longer running their own business. They may mentor new entrepreneurs, invest in startups, or simply attend events and stay connected with others in the community.

In conclusion, the phrase “Once an entrepreneur always an entrepreneur” reflects the reality that entrepreneurship is a way of life, not just a profession. The mindset, drive, passion, resilience, and community that define entrepreneurship are unlikely to disappear once a business is sold or retired from. For many entrepreneurs, entrepreneurship becomes a lifelong pursuit, and they continue to seek out new challenges and opportunities to create value long after they have left the startup world

Nobody is successful alone!!


It’s important to build healthy, inspiring and supportive relationship!!

Obstacles are just mental barriers!!!


Obstacles are just mental barriers!! We have to keep pushing ourselves with;

  • Positive Thought
  • Positive Network
  • Aggressive Attitude

Got this share at a Very right time!!!

Focus on your own instead of what the other person is achieving!!!