Category: Personal

Sprinting Through a Cluttered Mind


For a long time now, I’ve been struggling with a cluttered mind. It seems that no matter how hard I try, I just can’t seem to get things done efficiently. I’m constantly plagued by procrastination, and I find it difficult to execute tasks and handle people.

This cluttered mind is not just affecting my productivity; it’s also slowing down my thinking process, which in turn is affecting my decision-making abilities. I find myself constantly second-guessing myself, and I’m never quite sure if I’m making the right decision.

Despite all of this, I try to keep a positive outlook. I tell myself that when the going gets tough, the tough get going. I remind myself that challenges are a part of life, and that I need to face them head-on.

But the truth is, it’s not always easy to stay positive. It’s not always easy to keep pushing forward when everything seems to be working against you. Sometimes, it feels like you’re stuck in a rut, and no matter how hard you try, you just can’t seem to get out of it.

So, what do you do when you find yourself in this situation? How do you clear your cluttered mind and start making progress again?

Dealing with a Contradictory and Boastful Friend: A Nightmare


Have you ever come across someone who always seems to contradict everything you say, has an opinion on everything, and thinks they know everything better than you do? I certainly have, and his pseudonym is Solamuthan.

Solamuthan is a unique personality who always seems to think that his way is the best way. He can make the mood of the entire room go sour with his constant need to contradict and argue with everyone. He loves to boast about his own talent, and hearing him sing his own praises is incredibly irritating.

If you suggest going to one location, he’ll insist on going to another and argue why his choice is better than yours. The same goes for hotels; he’ll always recommend another one in the opposite direction. If you take one path when driving, he’ll suggest a detour and a different route.

Accompanying Solamuthan to hotels is a nightmare. He always complains about the food and will pick a fight with the serving staff. I always fear getting into an argument with the hotel staff, as their frustration with the situation might show in the food they serve us. Yet, he continues to complain and argue with everyone.

It’s surprising how such a person has built a false sense of hype around himself despite being ridiculed by many. Solamuthan’s constant need to contradict and argue with everyone may stem from a deep-seated insecurity or a desire to assert his dominance in the conversation. Unfortunately, this behavior only serves to alienate him from others and make him difficult to be around

Is Emotion a Weakness for an Entrepreneur?


As an entrepreneur, one may believe that they must remain emotionally detached from their business decisions to stay objective and successful. However, this is a misconception, and in reality, emotions play an essential role in an entrepreneur’s life. While emotions can be a great motivator, they can also be a weakness for entrepreneurs.

Here are some reasons why emotion can be a weakness for entrepreneurs:

  1. Impulsive decision-making

Emotions can often lead to impulsive decision-making, which can be detrimental to an entrepreneur’s business. When emotions are high, and rational thinking is clouded, entrepreneurs may make decisions that are not based on sound business principles or may be driven by personal biases.

  1. Inability to handle rejection

Rejection is a common experience for entrepreneurs, whether it’s from potential investors, customers, or partners. Emotions can make it difficult for entrepreneurs to handle rejection and bounce back from setbacks. This can lead to a lack of resilience and an unwillingness to take risks in the future.

  1. Difficulty in managing stress

Entrepreneurship can be stressful, and the ability to manage stress is essential for success. Emotions can exacerbate stress levels and make it difficult for entrepreneurs to stay focused and productive. This can lead to burnout and ultimately harm the business.

  1. Poor communication skills

Emotions can interfere with effective communication, which is critical for entrepreneurs. When entrepreneurs are emotionally charged, they may struggle to articulate their thoughts clearly, listen actively, and empathize with others. This can lead to misunderstandings and conflict, both of which can harm the business.

  1. Limited creativity

Emotions can limit an entrepreneur’s creativity and ability to think outside the box. When emotions are high, entrepreneurs may be more likely to stick to conventional thinking and avoid taking risks. This can stifle innovation and limit the potential for growth.

In conclusion, while emotions can be a great motivator, they can also be a weakness for entrepreneurs. Emotions can lead to impulsive decision-making, an inability to handle rejection, difficulty in managing stress, poor communication skills, and limited creativity. Therefore, entrepreneurs must learn to manage their emotions effectively to stay objective and successful in their business endeavors

Dealing with a Boomer Uncle: Lessons Learned from My Friend’s Experience


We all have that one friend who always seems to depend on us for everything, but creates a narrative that we are dependent on them. They tell everyone how our lives would be without them, and act like they are the center of our universe. I have such a friend, and I have named him Boomer Ungle in my blog posts.

Boomer Ungle is the quintessential advice-giver. He has an opinion on everything, from how to do business to how to manage my personal relationships. He tells me why I failed in my ventures, and how I can do better next time. He even tells me how I should raise my children, and how I should interact with my spouse. In short, he has an advice for everything, and he’s not shy about sharing it with me and everyone else around.

At first, I used to get irritated with his constant advice-giving. I felt like he was trying to impose his views on me, and I resented that. But over time, I realized that his behavior was more about him than it was about me. He needed to feel important, and he did that by making me feel like I needed him.

It’s ironic that Boomer Ungle sees himself as the one who is indispensable to me, because the truth is that I don’t really need him. Yes, he’s been a friend for a long time, and we’ve shared some good times together. But I don’t rely on him for anything, and I don’t feel like my life would be significantly worse without him.

In fact, whenever Boomer Ungle starts his narrative about how much I depend on him, I can’t help but laugh. I find it amusing that he can’t see the truth, and that he has to create a story to make himself feel important.

But despite all of this, I’ve come to accept Boomer Ungle for who he is. I don’t take his advice seriously, but I listen to it with a sense of detachment. I recognize that he’s trying to be helpful, even if his advice is often misguided.

And so, I’ve decided to call him Boomer Ungle in my blog posts. It’s a term that captures his essence, and it’s become a running joke among my friends. They all know who I’m talking about when I use that term, and they often chuckle at the mention of it.

In the end, Boomer Ungle is just another part of my life. He’s not the most important part, but he’s there, and he’s a reminder that we all have quirks and idiosyncrasies that make us who we are. And even though he may drive me crazy at times, I’m glad to have him as a friend.

Entrepreneurial rollercoaster: Navigating relationships, emotions, failures, and demotivation on the path to success


Entrepreneurship can be a challenging and rewarding journey. While building a business, entrepreneurs face numerous challenges that can affect their relationships, emotions, and motivation. In this blog, we will explore some of the common challenges faced by entrepreneurs and how they can overcome them.

  1. Relationships:

Entrepreneurship can put a strain on relationships, whether it’s with a spouse, family, or friends. Entrepreneurs often work long hours and put all their energy into their business, leaving little time for other areas of their life. This can lead to feelings of guilt and resentment from their loved ones.

To overcome this, entrepreneurs should communicate their goals and schedule with their loved ones. Setting boundaries and being transparent about their workload can help to manage expectations and reduce stress. Additionally, making time for self-care and spending quality time with loved ones can help to maintain healthy relationships.

  1. Emotions:

Entrepreneurship can be an emotional rollercoaster. The highs of success and the lows of failure can be challenging to manage. Entrepreneurs may also face anxiety and stress due to the uncertainty of their business.

To overcome this, entrepreneurs should practice mindfulness and self-care. Taking breaks, practicing meditation, and exercising can help to reduce stress and anxiety. Seeking support from a mentor or a therapist can also help to manage emotions and maintain a positive mindset.

  1. Failures:

Failures are inevitable in entrepreneurship. Entrepreneurs may experience setbacks, such as failed product launches, unsuccessful marketing campaigns, or financial challenges. These failures can be demotivating and make entrepreneurs question their abilities.

To overcome this, entrepreneurs should embrace failure as a learning opportunity. They should analyze their failures and use the lessons learned to improve their business. Additionally, seeking support from a mentor or a business coach can provide a fresh perspective and help entrepreneurs to stay motivated.

  1. Demotivation:

Entrepreneurship can be a lonely journey, and entrepreneurs may feel demotivated at times. It can be challenging to stay motivated when facing constant challenges and setbacks.

To overcome this, entrepreneurs should set realistic goals and celebrate small wins. Breaking down big goals into smaller achievable tasks can make them feel less overwhelming. Additionally, seeking support from a community of like-minded entrepreneurs can provide motivation and accountability.

In conclusion, entrepreneurship is a challenging but rewarding journey. Entrepreneurs may face challenges in their relationships, emotions, failures, and motivation. However, by practicing mindfulness, seeking support, and embracing failure, entrepreneurs can overcome these challenges and achieve success in their business

The Entrepreneurial Spirit: Once Ignited, Forever Alive


Entrepreneurship is a way of life, not just a profession. It is a mindset that enables individuals to identify and pursue opportunities, create value, and take calculated risks. While some people may choose to start their own businesses only once, for others, entrepreneurship becomes a lifelong pursuit. The phrase “Once an entrepreneur always an entrepreneur” reflects this reality, and in this blog post, we will explore why this is the case.

  1. Entrepreneurship is a mindset

Entrepreneurship is not just about starting a business; it’s about the mindset that drives individuals to pursue their goals and create value. Entrepreneurs are inherently curious and creative. They are always on the lookout for new opportunities and ways to improve existing systems. This mindset doesn’t just disappear once an entrepreneur has sold their business or retired from the startup world.

  1. Entrepreneurs thrive on challenge

Entrepreneurs are often attracted to the challenge of starting a business. They relish the opportunity to create something new and solve problems that others have overlooked. This drive doesn’t disappear once a business is up and running. Many entrepreneurs continue to seek out new challenges, whether that means starting a new business or pursuing other endeavors that require creativity and problem-solving skills.

  1. Entrepreneurs are passionate

Entrepreneurs are often driven by a deep passion for what they do. Whether they are creating a new product or service, solving a problem, or serving a specific market, entrepreneurs are committed to their vision. This passion doesn’t simply disappear once a business is sold or retired from. Many entrepreneurs continue to be passionate about the same issues that drove them to start their business in the first place, and they may pursue other avenues for expressing that passion.

  1. Entrepreneurs are resilient

Starting a business is not easy, and entrepreneurs often face setbacks, failures, and unexpected challenges along the way. However, successful entrepreneurs learn from their experiences and use them to build resilience. This resilience doesn’t disappear once a business is sold or retired from. Many entrepreneurs continue to be resilient in other areas of their lives and pursue new challenges with the same level of determination.

  1. Entrepreneurship is a community

Entrepreneurship is not just about the individual; it’s about the community of like-minded individuals who support each other and share a common vision. Once an entrepreneur has entered this community, they are unlikely to leave it entirely. Many entrepreneurs continue to be involved in the startup world, even if they are no longer running their own business. They may mentor new entrepreneurs, invest in startups, or simply attend events and stay connected with others in the community.

In conclusion, the phrase “Once an entrepreneur always an entrepreneur” reflects the reality that entrepreneurship is a way of life, not just a profession. The mindset, drive, passion, resilience, and community that define entrepreneurship are unlikely to disappear once a business is sold or retired from. For many entrepreneurs, entrepreneurship becomes a lifelong pursuit, and they continue to seek out new challenges and opportunities to create value long after they have left the startup world

That Day Yesterday


Driving in Chennai can be a daunting experience, especially with the ongoing metro construction that has shrunk main roads and led to digging on interior roads for drainage and metro water. But recently, I had to make a trip from Porur to Singaperumal Kovil with my friend and son, and to my surprise, it turned out to be a stress-free experience.

We started our journey at 9:30 AM, and despite the heavy traffic, I was able to drive comfortably while engaging in a conversation with my friend. My son, too, was occupied with snacking, watching videos, and talking to my friend. We picked up some materials in Vadapalani and continued our journey, a 50 KM drive to Singaperumal Kovil.

With my friend engaging my son and me, the journey felt effortless, and we completed the job without any stress. We returned home by 1 PM, and I decided to take my son back to Madurai, where he stays with his mother.

The drive back to Madurai, which started at 3 PM, was equally enjoyable, and my son’s occasional crankiness didn’t affect my driving. I took breaks to let him play in the play area of hotels, fed him, and continued driving without feeling any stress. We reached Madurai at 11:15 PM, and it was a great feeling to have had such a smooth and enjoyable drive.

Sometimes, things just fall into place, and yesterday was one of those days. Despite the challenging conditions on Chennai’s roads, the trip turned out to be a memorable and stress-free experience for me and my son

Parents Demotivating your Dreams!!!


It can be very discouraging and demotivating when the people closest to you, such as your parents, do not support your dreams. However, it’s important to remember that their reactions might not be about you or your dreams, but about their own fears and concerns.

Here are some steps you can take to deal with your parents’ demotivating behavior:

  1. Seek support from others: Surround yourself with people who believe in your dreams and are willing to support you. This can be friends, mentors, or even online communities.
  2. Take small steps: Break down your goals into smaller, achievable tasks, and start taking action towards your dreams. Celebrate your progress, no matter how small, and use it as motivation to keep going.
  3. Believe in yourself: It’s important to remember that your dreams are valid and worth pursuing, even if others don’t see it. Believe in yourself and your abilities, and keep working towards your goals.

Ultimately, it’s important to follow your own path and do what makes you happy, even if it means going against what your parents want for you. It may take time, but with persistence and hard work, you can achieve your dreams and prove to your parents that you were right to pursue them

Handling EQ & FT


Balancing emotional intelligence (EQ) when dealing with financial turbulence and emotional blackmail while being alone can be a challenging task. However, here are some steps that may help:

  1. Acknowledge your emotions: Recognized size and accept your emotions, whether it is stress, anxiety, fear, or anger. Don’t try to suppress or ignore your emotions as it may lead to more significant problems in the future. Instead, take a deep breath, pause, and reflect on your emotions.
  2. Set boundaries: Emotional blackmail is a manipulative tactic that can be challenging to deal with. Setting boundaries and asserting yourself is crucial. Be clear about what you are willing to accept and what you are not. Stick to your boundaries, even if it causes temporary discomfort.
  3. Prioritize self-care: Take care of your mental and physical well-being. Practice mindfulness techniques, such as meditation, yoga, or deep breathing exercises. Exercise regularly, get enough sleep, and eat a healthy diet. Self-care can help you cope better with emotional stress and financial turbulence.
  4. Focus on solutions: Instead of dwelling on the problem, focus on finding solutions. Take a practical approach and identify the steps you can take to improve your financial situation. Seek professional advice from financial advisors, credit counselors, or debt management experts. By taking action, you can gain a sense of control and reduce your stress levels.

Remember that balancing EQ is a continuous process that requires practice and patience. It’s essential to stay positive and believe in your ability to overcome financial turbulence and emotional blackmail

Forrest Gump shows what real love is;


Forrest talks to Jenny!!

I miss you Jenny. If there’s anything you need I won’t be far away.

Forrest Gump

The most ironic thing about Forest Gump climax is Jenny told Forrest he didn’t know what love is, and in the end he showed that he Knew what love was more than she ever did.