Improve your mind by taking these simple steps


Go back to school: Continuing your education does not have to be a complicated endeavor. Take an online class, or just a weekend seminar.

Read classic books: Improve your mind by finally picking up all those books you were supposed to read in school.

Plan: Always have a plan for your life, so you’ll know what you’re working toward.

Quit procrastinating: Resolve to get moving, and you’ll find that you have much more time than you originally realized.

Get inspired by a book: Read a book that will help you spark positive changes in your life.

Learn from your mistakes: Don’t let mistakes get you down. Instead, consider what you did wrong, and how you can avoid doing so again in the future.

Stop worrying: Let go of worry, and know that the future will come no matter what you do about it.

Learn to play a musical instrument: Pick up a guitar, or even a harp, to improve your mental capacity and have something fun to do.

Work to your own advantage: Improve upon what you can, and let the rest fall away.

Think slowly: Instead of jumping to conclusions, carefully calculate what a situation means. Doing so can help you save relationships that might be damaged by rash thinking.

Participate in a debate: Have a rational discussion with someone of similar intellect to improve your knowledge.

Learn a new language: Broaden your horizons by learning how to speak a new language.

Visit Wikipedia: Spend some time on Wikipedia learning lots of interesting facts you’ve never realized before.

Trip to Tirumala


It is always fun to be tour with friends… My best outing was trip to ooty with my college mates during 1999 when I was in my final year in college… Next best things for someone who is search of peace, solutions for problems and soul searching is by visiting temples…

I’m great believer in Lord Venkatachapathi in Tirumala, Tirupathi. I’ve been visiting this temple for 9 years. Normally I leave Chennai early in the morning return the same day by night.

But this time I took my friends getting assurance from one of by MBA mates and things got messed up. We reached Tirumala on Sunday morning and we thought my friends would have made arrangement by 9 o clock in the morning. But he forgot to instruct his subordinates and we got a ticket for darshan only on Monday morning by 5.30 AM.

So we had ball of a time on Sunday. It was like tour de spirituality. So we eventually drove all spots in the hill and stayed in a Guest house. Pulling each other and we did some shopping as we didn’t bring any cloths.

Then as usual it was a challenge coordinating and making folks get ready on time and to my surprise we were on time and had good darshan and I was relieved as I missed 2 opportunities to visit Lerd Venky on two occasions.

These are the folks who made up for trip;

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 Left to Right : Anand, Muthi, Vicky, Subbu, Balaji, Sathish…

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This is Sudhir who took previous snap…

This is how we went to temple with dothi and angavastaram;

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Never leave undivided real property to joint beneficiaries


Was going through an article on financial planning where in most of the points were redundant and contained what every financial planner would say. But this one point caught my attention and I firmly believe in this point and wanted to share it with my readers. As I’ve seen many family feud happened because of the below said reason;

Lots of things are more important than money. Family is probably at the top of the list. If you want a vicious family feud on your hands, breaking this rule would be a great place to start.

Imagine a farm that gets left to four sons: One has farmed it for 20 years; one is an environmentalist and wants it to be a park; one is broke and needs money; and one could not care less about it. Who will get wealthy from this plan? The attorneys. And the kids and grandkids will probably hate each other forever.

Remember that ‘equal’, ‘equitable’, and ‘fair’ are three different words with three totally different meanings.

This is how business works


It is the month of June, on the shores of the Black Sea , it is raining, and the little town looks totally deserted. It is tough times, everybody is in debt, and everybody lives on credit.

Suddenly, a rich tourist comes to town. He enters the only hotel, lays a 100 Euro note on the reception counter, and goes to inspect the rooms upstairs in order to pick one.

The hotel proprietor takes the 100 Euro note and runs to pay his debt to the butcher.

The Butcher takes the 100 Euro note, and runs to pay his debt to the pig grower.

The pig grower takes the 100 Euro note, and runs to pay his debt to the supplier of his feed and fuel.

The supplier of feed and fuel takes the 100 Euro note and runs to pay his debt to the town’s prostitute that in these hard times, gave her services on credit.

The hooker runs to the hotel, and pays off her debt with the 100 Euro note to the hotel proprietor to pay for the rooms that she rented when she brought her clients there.

The hotel proprietor then lays the 100 Euro note back on the counter so that the rich tourist will not suspect anything.

At that moment, the rich tourist comes down after inspecting the rooms, and takes his 100 Euro note, after saying that he d id not like any of the rooms, and leaves town.

No one earned anything. However, the whole town is now without debt, and looks to the future with a lot of optimism.

And that, ladies and gentlemen, is how the business is today…..

Way to raise Kids!!!


Today I was having breakfast with my friend Kannan and I’m must say this was an enlightening breakfast. Kannan was sharing his childhood experience and the way his parents raised him in an Indian lower middle class style. Kannan shared a particular experience where in his mother taught him the value for money. So the story goes like this;

Kannan was a 9 year kid and he insisted his mom to buy him a scented rubber which costs 50 paisa where has his mom been willing to buy him a rubber which coats 10 paisa. Little Kannan got irated with his mom and he was curious to buy the rubber he desired. When he showed his piece of mind to his mom; his mom insisted him to earn that 50 paisa to buy his desired rubber. Our little Kannan who was highly egoistic decided to take up a job to earn for the rubber. He went and requested for petty job of breaking the bricks from the supervisor who was construction his house.

The supervisor after consulting with his mom offered to give him a job to break the bricks. Happy Kannan requested for a hammer to break the bricks from the supervisor. Supervisor said Kannan must posses the kits for the work and asked him to come with a hammer. When Kannan asked him mom for a hammer she said she doesn’t have one. Little Kannan started hunting for hammer from neighbors by 8.30 AM in the sourced a hammer from a hammer by 10.30 AM and he started the work by 10.30.

He worked till 12.30 in the noon and he went for lunch and after lunch he wanted to have a nap for 10 min. He requested his mom to wake him after 10 min and his mom denied the request telling if he is sincere in his job he must be on his own. Being a kid and working in hot sun made him tired and he slept till 4.30 PM. When his woke up he got angry again with his mom for not waking him up and by the time the day has come to an end.

Little Kannan went to the supervisor and asked a wage for the amount of work he did. The supervisor said Kannan that he doesn’t deserve anything for the half-baked work he did and he offered him 50 paisa for the work he did knowing he worked for that 50 paisa. Kannan got angrier on supervisor as he thought he deserved more for the work he did. But Kannan got the money to fulfill his desire and he instantly got the rubber.

When he returned back home his mom asked him to list the things he did from the morning to earn that 50 paisa.

Kannan says that was the day he understood the value of money and his way of seeing things changed. I might have learned this experience of Kannan at a later stage. But as a parent I came to know how I can raise my kids.

I must thank Kannan for sharing his experience and allowing me to post it in my blog.

At last Joy in Madurai


It has been 10 months since I’ve been visiting Madurai and initial 2 month have been great struggle to catch up with the culture. Also added up to the irony the city was deprived of Multiplexes and MNC food joints / boutique food joints. In these 10 months I’ve experimented tasting lots of family run food joints and did a lot of Vagabond trips to locations near to Madurai.

Also for last two months I had to postpone my Vagabond travelling because of summer and still pinch of summer is severe.

Starting from next month I’ll start my weekend vagabond trips and the places in the list are; 

  • Rameshwaram
  • Kuttralam
  • Valparai
  • A days stay in KaniyaKumari

DSC01186DSC01188Apart from this there is a brand new coffee shop opened in Anna Nagar which has a great ambiance and menus are also good. Also it is not crowded yet and I really enjoy visiting this joint.

By the end of August Millennium Mall will be open for public and it has 3 screen multiplex.

 

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At last I feel a sense of relief as I might not feel bored during evenings and weekends.

CCS files I-T returns for Reliance BigFlix Chennai Staff


bigflixI’m thrilled to have Reliance BigFlix as one of our client. I think this is one great moment in the books of CCS and kudos to Mr.Bala Murugan for his non-stop follow up and for striking the deal. Though this is a small deal we are thrilled for more than one reason. 

  • BigFlix admin team Googled for “tax consultants” and got our link from Google Search.
  • It is always nice to see your website site working for you.
  • Then another excitement is working for a brand like Reliance.

Now I think we must be a part of their vendor list and would be glad to grow our business with them and try to win more orders with this credential.

Once again Nice Job Bala!!!!!

Things an Indian does after returning from abroad


  • Tries to use credit card in road side hotel.
  • Drinks and carries mineral water and always speaks of health conscious.
  • Sprays duo such so that he doesn’t need to take bath.
  • Sneezes and says ‘Excuse me’.
  • Says “Hey” instead of  “Hi”.

       Says “Yogurt” instead says “Curds”.
       Says “Cab” instead of “Taxi”.
       Says “Candy” instead of “Chocolate”.
       Says “Cookie” instead of “Biscuit”.
       Says “Free Way” instead of “Highway”.
       Says “got to go” instead of “Have to go”.
       Says “Oh” instead of “Zero”, (for 704, says Seven Oh Four Instead of Seven Zero Four)

  • Doesn’t forget to crib about air pollution. Keeps cribbing every time he steps out.
  • Says all the distances in Miles (Not in Kilo Meters), and counts in Millions. (Not in Lakhs)
  • Tries to figure all the prices in Dollars as far as possible (but deep down the heart multiplies by 43 times).
  • Tries to see the % of fat on the cover of a milk pocket.
  • When need to say Z (zed), never says Z (Zed), repeats “Zee” several times, if the other person unable to get, then says X, Y Zee(but never says Zed)
  • Writes date as MM/DD/YYYY, on watching traditional DD/MM/YYYY, says “Oh! British Style!!!!”
  • Makes fun of Indian Standard Time and Indian Road Conditions.
  • Even after 2 months, complaints about “Jet Lag”.
  • Avoids eating more chili (hot) stuff.
  • Tries to drink “Diet Coke”, instead of Normal Coke.
  • Tries to complain about any thing in India as if he is experiencing it for the first time.
  • Pronounces “schedule” as “skejule”, and “module” as “mojule”.
  • Looks speciously towards Hotel/Dhaba food.

Few more important

  • From the luggage bag, does not remove the stickers of Airways by which he traveled back to India, even after 4 months of arrival.
  • Takes the cabin luggage bag to short visits in India, tries to roll the bag on Indian Roads.

Ultimate one

  • Tries to begin conversation with “In US ….” or “When I was in US…”

10 steps to create Corporate Culture


  1. Don’t talk about people, talk to people.
  2. Communicate in a respectful manner. If you are too mad to be respectful, calm down before addressing the problem.
  3. Yelling is not acceptable.
  4. Do not “air our dirty laundry” in public. If you have a problem with someone, speak with them behind closed doors.
  5. Be mindful of who is listening. Close doors or lower your voice (or the volume on your speaker phone) as necessary.
  6. Don’t be a “bully” to others, particularly those in jobs subordinate to us. We address problems with the appropriate person in an appropriate manner..
  7. Don’t preach desired behavior; rather practice desired behavior. People will form their opinions of us not just in terms of how we treat them, but how they see us treating others. Additionally, remember that our team members are our internal customers. They will treat our external customers the way that we treat them.
  8. Do not perpetuate problems through gossip. Just to make sure we’re on the same page, gossip is defined as, “idle talk or rumor, especially about the personal or private affairs of others” or “a report (often malicious) about the behavior of other people”. Do not spread rumors. Address issues then move on.
  9. Do not speak negatively of others, of the company, or of the company policies to those “outside the team” or to other team members.
  10. Always ask these questions when a problem occurs:
  • “Why did this problem occur? Why did this person make a mistake?”
  •  “What could I have done to prevent this problem? Was it a lack of communication on my part?”
  • “Did I fully explain my expectations?”
  • “How would I want to be treated in this situation?”

 Our job is always going to be tough, with unexpected crises popping up, but we don’t need to make it tougher by bringing unnecessary drama and stress into the workplace. Let’s all do our part to reach the goals of the organization, and help to change corporate culture one person at a time, starting with ourselves.

Explaining Love & Marriage – Nice examples


A student asks a teacher, “What is love?”

The teacher said, “in order to answer your question, go to the wheat field and choose the biggest wheat and come back.

But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick.”

The student went to the field, go thru first row, he saw one big wheat, but he wonders….may be there is a bigger one later.

Then he saw another bigger one… But may be there is an even bigger one waiting for him.

Later, when he finished more than half of the wheat field, he start to realize that the wheat is not as big as the previous one he saw, he know he has missed the biggest one, and he regretted.

So, he ended up went back to the teacher with empty hand.

The teacher told him, “…this is love… You keep looking for a better one, but when later you realise, you have already miss the person….”

“What is marriage then?” the student asked.

The teacher said, “in order to answer your question, go to the corn field and choose the biggest corn and come back. But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick.”

The student went to the corn field, this time he is careful not to repeat the previous mistake, when he reach the middle of the field, he has picked one medium corn that he feel satisfy, and come back to the teacher..

The teacher told him, “this time you bring back a corn…. You look for one that is just nice, and you have faith and believe this is the best one you get…. This is marriage.”

Courtesy : Sundar Kumar